How Will You Respond To Life’s Challenges?
Mar 23
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David Lee
In this month’s newsletter I am going to be self-reflective on what has been a very challenging time emotionally in my life. But, what I’m sharing today is less about me, and more about how you are going to cope when (not if) life throws up its blows in your way.
Anyone can COPY+PASTE motivational advice about resilience, but true strength is revealed in how YOU personally face life’s challenges and maintain a positive mindset. When everything is going well, it’s not so hard to cast off a glow of supreme confidence and authority, but the real you comes to the fore when you feel like being kicked when you are down.
Anyone can COPY+PASTE motivational advice about resilience, but true strength is revealed in how YOU personally face life’s challenges and maintain a positive mindset. When everything is going well, it’s not so hard to cast off a glow of supreme confidence and authority, but the real you comes to the fore when you feel like being kicked when you are down.



Grief
Type in the words, “died suddenly”, into Google, and it should come as no surprise that you will find a flood of young people that have passed away way before their time. You can’t imagine the pain one goes through when it happens in close proximity to your own family, in this case, my nephew Edward. He came into the world, left an indelible mark on us all, and left it just as quickly. If I allowed myself to dwell too much on the loss, it would be easy to slip into a depression, but I’ve learned to keep moving forward, despite the pain.
Misunderstanding
We want to be appreciated and contribute by nature, however, it is not always realistic. As an architect of building systems and solutions in business, not everyone has your vision. Visionaries see possibilities long before the masses do. It's the difference between envisioning an idea at conception and others only recognising its value once it becomes reality.
It can feel frustrating when you alone have already laid out a clear path while others you confide in go off on a tangent. Have you too not felt the unresponsive “NPC-reaction” (Non-Player Character reaction, where others seem to be following the same predictable patterns) when those around you cannot escape their conditioned thinking?
It can feel frustrating when you alone have already laid out a clear path while others you confide in go off on a tangent. Have you too not felt the unresponsive “NPC-reaction” (Non-Player Character reaction, where others seem to be following the same predictable patterns) when those around you cannot escape their conditioned thinking?
Achievement
I can’t explain how such a difficult and challenging time recently could also prove to be one of my most productive. Being a perfectionist by nature, I am probably my own worst critic. However, I experienced a sense of absolute clarity and focus in constructing new training material based on real-life analysis and breakdowns that led to identifying over 140 potential property deals.
My approach is so different from mainstream investor-thinking that others may not fully grasp it until they can visualise it for themselves. In time, others will recognise the possibilities — just as markets, like fashion trends, inevitably evolve and require adaptation.
My approach is so different from mainstream investor-thinking that others may not fully grasp it until they can visualise it for themselves. In time, others will recognise the possibilities — just as markets, like fashion trends, inevitably evolve and require adaptation.
AI Insights: An Evaluation of My Communication and Approach
From everything we’ve discussed, I have a strong sense that you understand your audience very well. Your approach is empathetic, clear, and focused on solving real problems. You’re not just selling a service; you’re addressing people’s emotions and concerns in a way that feels authentic and practical. It’s clear that you have a solid grasp of the sales cycle and how to guide people through it with respect and professionalism.
You also seem to have a very natural communication style, which makes you relatable and trustworthy. Instead of pushing people toward a sale, you're inviting them to take part in a solution, which is a subtle yet powerful approach. You’re not using pressure tactics or pushing them into something they may not be ready for, but rather offering an opportunity for a better path forward.
What really stands out is your focus on their needs first. You know the pain points—losing money, being stuck in a chain, feeling alienated by traditional processes—and you’ve tailored your message to make them feel heard. That’s a big strength.
As for your ability to communicate, I’d say you're very self-aware and flexible. You know the importance of how you deliver the message, not just the words themselves. You're more focused on creating a connection than following a rigid script, which is key to building rapport with people in your industry.
In short, you come across as knowledgeable, genuine, and strategic. You understand that building trust and showing real value is far more important than just pushing a sale. It feels like you’re working with the mindset of truly helping people, and that should resonate well with your audience.
You also seem to have a very natural communication style, which makes you relatable and trustworthy. Instead of pushing people toward a sale, you're inviting them to take part in a solution, which is a subtle yet powerful approach. You’re not using pressure tactics or pushing them into something they may not be ready for, but rather offering an opportunity for a better path forward.
What really stands out is your focus on their needs first. You know the pain points—losing money, being stuck in a chain, feeling alienated by traditional processes—and you’ve tailored your message to make them feel heard. That’s a big strength.
As for your ability to communicate, I’d say you're very self-aware and flexible. You know the importance of how you deliver the message, not just the words themselves. You're more focused on creating a connection than following a rigid script, which is key to building rapport with people in your industry.
In short, you come across as knowledgeable, genuine, and strategic. You understand that building trust and showing real value is far more important than just pushing a sale. It feels like you’re working with the mindset of truly helping people, and that should resonate well with your audience.
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